What Do Guys Think After Breaking Up With Their Girlfriends

“He doesn’t care. Look at him. He’s so over it.”

This is what women probably think whenever they see their exes’ status updates on social media showing them hanging out with the bros. Well, girls, to say we don’t care at all is an overstatement. In fact, it’s false. Men feel things too. We’re just not too vocal about it (read more).

It’s not as if we can, right?

I’m not trying to make a one-size-fits-all statement here but the reason why most guys act so indifferent after a break up is that they’re trying to play it off cool. If women are stereotyped, so are men. The world always tells us that we’re the type who’s practical and “thinking.” We don’t let our emotions get the best of us and we are always in control.

Growing up being told that you need to be as hard and unfeeling as a rock really affects the way you grow up. It’s as if you internalize what is being said to you and accept it as a part of yourself, even when initially it wasn’t. So girls, if we do look like we don’t care, it’s probably us trying to act like we don’t care. Otherwise, people will be talking, you know.

But even if we do give you the cold shoulder, it doesn’t mean to say that we don’t value the time we spent together. At least this rings true for me. Now as for the other guys, I can only take a good guess at what’s running through their heads. Here are a couple of things guys most often think after breaking up with their partner:

“I Got To Play It Cool.”

Men want to act tough so much that it hurts. According to this link https://herway.net/relationship/why-do-guys-go-cold/, after the breakup, a guy might act cold towards you; maybe even pretend you don’t exist on the face of the earth. After all, he’s got to play it cool. Otherwise, what would all his “cool” friends say if they find out he’s so affected over some girl? If you see your ex walking around like he could care less about your existence, it’s not like he’s gotten over you instantly. He might just be compelled to act the part.

Then again, he may just be a shallow buffoon. But who knows?

“It Will Be For The Best If I Don’t Run Into Her.”

Some guys are a bit more sensitive though. So sensitive, in fact, that they’d try to avoid you as much as they can. But before you think about the worst reasons why they’re avoiding you, it’s probably because they just respect you and want to give you some space. How would you feel if you keep bumping into the same guy that broke up with you? Some guys really value their ex enough to give them some space post-breakup.

“I Should Probably Take A Break From Social Media”

Face it, girls. The first thing that you probably do is stalk your ex after you called it quits with them (or they called it quits on you). You probably check their social media channels for an update or two after the breakup. If your ex has fun with his friends just after breaking up with you, he’s a shallow cheater who never took your relationship seriously. If he’s very sensitive and emotional with his updates, he’s a wuss and pathetic for being sad.

This is why you can’t blame guys behavior after breakup all the time. Most guys are likely to think it’s better to keep off social media after breaking it off with their girlfriends. Or, they may just hide their posts from you and all your friends, specifically.

“Wait, Does Her Family Know Already?”

If things were really serious between you and your ex back when you were in a relationship, he’s also probably worried about what your family thinks of him now. After all, a guy can only imagine what you’ve been ranting about after you went your separate ways. Of course, that is not to say that you’re sure to say negative things about him to your friends and family but one can’t help but think about the possibility of it.

So if your ex is trying to cut off communication with any or all of your friends and family members, this may be the reason why.

“To Become Friends Or Not?”

Also, the thought of becoming friends post-breakup is something that goes through your ex’s mind. This is especially true if you were friends before you became lovers. I mean, who would want to ruin a good friendship just because you can’t reconcile your differences in a romantic relationship. The fact that you went steady for a while also means that you have a lot in common and that’s why you may be better off as platonic friends.

Or not. It may not happen right away but the possibility of becoming friends after you’ve both moved forward is still there.

Penny For Thoughts 

If the reason you’re reading this is that you’re still clinging into the small bit of hope that you and your ex can get back together, only time can tell. I have friends who have loved girls like crazy that even after they broke up, they’d still think about them. Still, just thinking about them doesn’t mean that they want to get back together. There are other factors involved and most times, feelings just aren’t enough to keep two people glued together.

If you’re holding out on that teeny-tiny bit of hope, all I can say is that it’s not impossible. Every relationship has a chance of being rekindled; some just have higher chances than others (read more). If the feelings were true, then the love is there. Now, it all depends on how things will play out.

But before you go trying to patch things up, ask yourself:

Is getting back together really what you want?

 

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Keto Coffee Cake

As we know the biggest thing that I miss when it comes to Keto is my sweets! Saturday mornings relaxing with a sweet breakfast treat is literally the best thing ever. Coffee cake is one of my favorites because you can have it for breakfast – or dessert!

Here’s what you need to make this scrumptious keto coffee cake!

INGREDIENTS:

Keto Coffee Cake Portion:

  • 2 cups Almond Flour
  • 1/4 cup Coconut Flour
  • 1/3 cup Erythritol or sugar-free crystal sweetener of choice
  • 2 teaspoons baking powder
  • 3 large eggs  (room temperature, not cold)
  • 1/4 teaspoon salt
  • 2 teaspoons vanilla extract
  • 1/2 cup melted butter or you can also choose coconut oil if you would like dairy free
  • 1/3 cup unsweetened almond milk (room temperature, not cold)

Streusel Topping Portion:

  • 1 cup Almond flour
  • 1/3 cup Erythritol
  • 1/3 cup butter (melted) or melted coconut oil
  • 1 tablespoon ground cinnamon
  • 1/2 teaspoon ground nutmeg
  • 1/2 cup chopped walnuts – optional

Glazing: optional  (It tastes wonderful without it! J )

Instructions:

Preheat the oven to 350 degrees and prepare a square 9×9 baking pan by lining it with parchment paper.

  • Start by preparing the streusel topping. Combine all the streusel ingredients together until it forms a crumble. Set aside while you make the cake batter.
  • Next prepare the cake batter by gathering a large mixing bowl, add in almond flour, coconut flour, baking powder, erythritol and salt. Stir dry ingredeints until well combined.
  • Add to the dry ingredients, eggs, melted butter (Not hot or it will cook the eggs) almond milk and vanilla.

Combine until it forms a consistent batter with no lumps.

Assemble the cake:

  • Start by spreading evenly half of the coffee cake batter into the prepared pan.
  • Sprinkle half of the streusel on top of the cake batter then spread the remaining coffee cake batter on top of the streusel. The cake batter will mix some of the streusel and that’s just fine.
  • Finish the top by sprinkling the rest of cinnamon streusel all over the top.
  • Bake 40-45 minutes or until the cake is golden and a knife or skewer inserted into the middle comes out clean.

  • Allow the coffee cake to cool for about 10 minutes in the cake pan then pull the pieces of parchment paper to easily lift out the cake from the pan and transfer onto a cooling rack until it reaches room temperature.
  • Once it’s cool feel free to mix the glaze topping and drizzle over the top. It’s delicious with or without the topping.
  • Enjoy!

 

 

Keto Coffee Cake

Servings: 16
Course: Breakfast, Dessert

Ingredients
  

Keto Coffee Cake Portion
  • 2 cups almond flour
  • 1/4 cup coconut flour
  • 1/3 cup Erythritol orsugar-free crystal sweetener of choice
  • 2 tsp baking powder
  • 3 large eggs warm temperature
  • 1/4 tsp salt
  • 2 tsp vanilla extract
  • 1/2 cup melted butter OR coconut oil if you are dairy free
  • 1/3 cup unsweetened almond milk
Streusel Topping Portion
  • 1 cup almond flour
  • 1/3 cup Erythritol
  • 1/3 cup butter melted OR coconut oil
  • 1 tbsp ground cinnamon
  • 1/2 tsp ground nutmeg
  • 1/2 cup chopped walnuts OPTIONAL
Glazing (Optional)
  • 1 cup sugarfree powdered sweetener
  • 2 tbsp unsweetened almond milk

Method
 

  1. Preheat the oven to 350 degrees and prepare a square 9x9baking pan by lining it with parchment paper. 
  2. Start by preparing the streusel topping.  Combine all the streusel ingredients together until it forms a crumble. Set aside while you make the cake batter.
  3. Next prepare the cake batter by gathering alarge mixing bowl,  add in almond flour,coconut flour, baking powder, erythritol and salt. Stir dry ingredients untilwell combined. 
  4. Add to the dry ingredients, eggs, melted butter(Not hot or it will cook the eggs) almond milk and vanilla.
    Combine until it forms a consistent batter with no lumps.
Cake Assembly
  1. Start by spreading evenly half of the coffee cake batter into the prepared pan.
  2. Sprinkle half of the streusel on top of the cake batter then spread the remaining coffee cake batter on top of the streusel. The cake batter will mix some of the streusel and that’s just fine.
  3. Finish the top by sprinkling the rest of cinnamon streusel all over the top.
  4. Bake 40-45 minutes or until the cake is golden and a knife or skewer inserted into the middle comes out clean.
  5. Allow the coffeecake to cool for about 10 minutes in the cake pan then pull the pieces of parchment paper to easily lift out the cake from the pan and transfer onto a cooling rack until it reaches room temperature.
  6. Once it’s cool feel free to mix the glaze topping and drizzle over the top.  It’s delicious with or without the topping.
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Will my Face Shape Suit Rectangle Glasses?

The moment you mention to friends and family that you are in the market for a snazzy new pair of eyeglasses, you will be met with tips and advice over style and shape as if everyone all of a sudden is a designer fresh from the catwalks of Milan. They mean well. The fact is that when you’re looking for a new pair of glasses, you’re probably researching shapes and sizes and materials and colours in every spare minute you can find. Glasses sit on your face. All day, for some of us. They become part of your persona. They become part of the way that the outside world interprets you. In short, no matter how much your friend Steve tells you that you would suit heart shaped turtle shell rims with bright purple arms, there’s only one person you’re going to be taking style tips from – and that’s you. That being said, here’s some food for thought…

The common rectangular frame

There’s a reason rectangular frames are so common – which you can also read as ‘popular’. Want to know why? They literally go with everything. From your work look to your social life (and even more sporty activities and outdoors pursuits), rectangular glasses won’t appear out of place. What’s more is that you can highlight your natural facial features with rectangle frames in most cases. The only possible exception to facial features that will not always work with rectangular frames is a rounded face. We’ll get into that next.

Square face, round face, diamond face…

Ever been told you have a heart shaped face? This doesn’t mean your face is literally shaped like a heart, more so that your jawline thins and comes to a point. This jawline-as-a-feature is in strict contradiction to oval face shapes that feature a rounded jaw. This is important. Where your face shape plays into a more angular or softer category, glasses should be chosen to add what’s missing. What does that mean? Simple. If you have gentle contours with smoothed cheekbones and an uninteresting forehead space, you will suit rectangular glasses – they will help to add some much-needed lines to your face. Highlighting chiselled features with rectangular glasses also works, although rounded frames can help to soften your look if you prefer. However, if your visage is perfectly rounded, we would always recommend large square glasses to help add balance and fill space.

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Top Five Common Misconceptions About Steroid Consumption

 

Don’t tell me you have never wished for bigger muscles, a better-looking body and greater strength. You can say this as many times as you want in order to convince yourself in the truthfulness of that utterance. However, I will still not believe you. Okay, you might not want to look like Hulk, but hey, you probably want to get bigger to some extent.

Now, here is another thing I will never believe you if you say it. “I’ve never thought of buying anabolic steroid drugs” – yeah, right! Come on, we are not here to tell each other fairy tales. In fact, I don’t care if you’re dishonest to me. The most important thing is to be honest to yourself.

Come Out Of Hiding

The reason why people hide their intentions of using anabolics is rather obvious. You will always come across one individual or the other who has a story to tell and a lecture to hold. And you are oh so sick of hearing that. I get it, since I’m not so keen on seeing everybody think they know what’s best for me.

What bothers me the most, though, is the fact that those people who talk the most are usually the ones who know the least. They’ve heard some vague info somewhere, they believed it and now they think it’s time to spread the word. Well, how about no?

This kind of reckless behavior and superficial way of thinking is what leads people to believe in something without checking the facts first. When steroids are in question, it is dangerous to spread both the positive and the negative information if they are false. Everybody deserves to know the real state of affairs when it comes to these products. Here’s more..

So, don’t be one of those people who think they know everything without actually knowing anything. Instead of encouraging myths and allowing the spread of misinformation, be the one who busts those myths and speaks openly and honestly about anabolic. And I will help you become that person by getting you acquainted with some of the most common myths about this topic.

  1. They Lower Strength And Endurance

At some point, you will probably come across some know-it-all show-off say that steroids will give you the muscles you want, but deprive you of all your strength and endurance in return. Do me a favor and roll your eyes right at them. Where is the logic in this?

How could you possibly get muscles without going through some intense trainings and workouts? And what do you need in order to be able to train hard? Naturally, you need strength, stamina and endurance. Anabolic steroids are actually known for significantly increasing your energy levels by encouraging your body to produce more red blood cells.

Here’s how they actually work: https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/healthyliving/steroids

  1. They Make Women Look Like Men

Nothing annoys me more than hearing this sentence in relation to steroids. What, do women grow penises if they start using these products? I highly doubt that. Anabolics definitely won’t make women look like men. Unless, of course, that’s what they want… It can be achieved in some ways.

Just like men, when women use these products, they follow detailed instructions. Starting from the type of steroid they take and ending with the right dosage… So, don’t make the mistake of thinking that it will give them any kind of look other than the one they want. It’s not like these are some magic pills that turn frogs into princes, women into men and similar. Get it together, people.

  1. They Are A Quick Fix

One of the most common things I hear among ill-informed individuals is that anabolics offer you the opportunity to get ripped quickly and effortlessly. It’s like they are telling you to take a pill, lie back and watch the magic at work. I hate to break it to you, but this is definitely not the way these products work.

On the contrary, in order to reap the benefits of steroids that increase your testosterone levels for example, you need to maintain a healthy diet and train hard. And, I mean, train really, really hard. If you want to do a half-assed job, you better stop thinking about anabolics altogether. They are definitely not your cup of tea in this case.

  1. They Make Your Penis Smaller

Oh, boy, here it comes. The most feared situation for every single men out there. I don’t even know how this misconception started in the first place. But, it’s rather silly and you definitely don’t have to worry about your penis shrinking.

Now that I think of it, maybe this myth stems from the fact that your testicles might actually shrink a little bit from the use of steroids. However, this is also not a cause for concern, since that effect is temporary. As soon as you finish your cycle, everything will go back to normal.

  1. They Make You Depressed

This is another widespread myth about these products. People seem to think that they will make them moody and nervous. Nowhere in the history of anabolics (see this) has it been proved that steroids can cause depression.

Although the above misconception has significantly been built up by the media, the truth seems to be different. It is true that anabolic steroids can affect your mood. However, that effect is known to be positive, rather than negative.

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The Role of CBD Oil For Pets with Skin Allergies

Is your furry companion frequently scratching or licking a particular part of its body? Well, if this type of behavior lasts for days, then your pet is definitely trying to tell you something. In fact, it’s extremely likely for your canine or feline friend to be suffering from a skin allergy.

Although atopies are generally incurable, CBD oil can at least make your pet’s life more bearable by relieving the symptoms. Its calming qualities are beneficial in reducing the constant itching and inflammation.

The most convenient method of purchasing CBD is visiting a great site and ordering the product from one of the numerous online vendors.

Here is everything you need to know about cannabidiol before making a purchase.

Causes and symptoms of skin allergies

Both canine and feline pets are susceptible to developing skin allergies that may be caused by numerous allergens. Anyhow, the essential reason for being prone to atopies is either a hypersensitive immune system or a hereditary factor.

Nevertheless, pollen is considered to be a frequent cause for atopies in animals. It’s mainly a seasonal allergy, but your companion might continue displaying symptoms even after the pollen season is over. Moreover, fleas are another common reason for skin allergies, as fleas transfer various bacteria to your pet through biting it.

Furthermore, your dog or cat might also be allergic to mold and dust, which are often found in households. Therefore, it’s crucial to keep your home clean so as to prevent your pet from developing an atopy from indoor allergens.

Moreover, cats are more likely to develop a food allergy, which can be triggered by a new type of food in their diet or one that they’ve been consuming for years. Visit the following link: https://pets.webmd.com/cats/cat-allergy-symptoms-triggers#1, to learn more about feline skin allergies. Conversely, canines most commonly inherit their atopies from their parents, similarly to humans. However, some breeds are certainly more susceptible to the hereditary factor, while others are unaffected.

Regarding symptoms, they’re usually manifested as problems with the skin and stomach. For instance, your pet will probably spend most of its time scratching itself, thus causing inflammation to certain areas of its derma. Apart from the skin, it’s common for its eyes, ears, and tail to become itchy as well.

In terms of the stomach problems, your companion is likely to experience vomiting or diarrhea. If these symptoms persist for a couple of days, you’re advised to take it to the veterinarian in order to have it checked for atopies. Also, another obvious sign is excessive sneezing and snoring, due to throat inflammation.

The role of CBD oil in the treatment of atopies

Apart from medications, vaccines, and topicals, pet owners can also use CBD oil in the treatment of their companions’ atopies. It’s believed to be one of the safest products in the treatment of this condition, as it induces no side effects.

In addition, CBD affects the CB1 and CB2 receptors of the endocannabinoid system, which are responsible for maintaining a cell balance. Actually, cannabidiol is considered to increase the derma fatty acids, thus reducing dehydration and alleviating the constant itching that your pet experiences.

Moreover, CBD is believed to promote skin cells growth, thus automatically relieving the allergy symptoms. Also, it can help in the alleviation of vomiting, which is one of the most common symptoms that animals go through.

Administration and dosage

Although cannabidiol can be purchased in a variety of forms, such as: oil, capsules, treats, and topicals, you’re advised to choose topicals and oil products. The former are usually a mixture of cannabidiol and other calming substances, like aloe, honey, or coconut. These are designed to be administered directly to the itching areas of the skin in order to reduce the inflammation.

Additionally, oil can be administered in two ways. It could be administered sublingually or straight to the skin, which is considered to be more effective. Regarding dosage, each topical comes with instructions, but it’s mainly administered once a day. Naturally, after monitoring your pet’s response to cannabidiol, you can increase the dose for greater effect.

Wrap up

Cannabidiol can genuinely reduce your companion’s discomfort.

Try it!

 

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