No matter if you’ve been married 5 years or 50 years sometimes things get well, old. The one thing about long term relationships is you have to constantly work on keeping things hot.
No one likes to feel like they are old news or they aren’t ‘doing it’ for their partner anymore. I recently read an awesome book about marriage, and keeping your relationship healthy.
His Needs, Her Needs :Building an Affair Proof Marriage by Willard F. Harley Jr. is an awesome book for newlyweds or even those married 20 years! Here’s something that clicked with me as soon as I read it:
The typical wife doesn’t understand her husband’s deep need for sex anymore than the typical husband understands his wife’s deep need for affection. But these two ingredients can work very closely together in a happy, fulfilled marriage. Sex can come naturally and often, if there is enough affection.
When I started reading this book I started to realize how different men and women really are. The cuddling I need from my husband is just the same as the intimate moments he desires from me. Things may not always be as hot as the first few years, but you can continue to ‘bring it’ and keep the passion in your marriage going strong.
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One of my favorite things I’ve found on this site is a book called The better sex guide to extraordinary lovemaking
Overview: The Better Sex Guide to Extraordinary Lovemaking is the definitive reference manual to sex from the leading adult sex educator, the Sinclair Institute, creators of the phenomenally successful Better Sex video series.
Based on the latest research in sexuality, each chapter gives readers frank advice on how positions actually work, how to incorporate sexual practices like anal sex and bondage into a sexual repertoire safely and respectfully, and how to resolve sexual challenges such as mismatched sex drive and premature ejaculation. Going beyond where other bestselling sex manuals stop short, this guide covers every aspect of sexual activity from the basics such as anatomy, masturbation, and intercourse to more advanced sexplay such as oral and anal sex, fetishes, sex toys, and role-playing. Explicit full color photography and illustrations will demonstrate key elements, skills, and techniques in a realistic manner.
This is the perfect book to get you started back on your way to that hot passion in the bedroom!
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